10 Tips For Posting Online Personal Profile Photos

Posted on July 16th, 2008 in RSS Feed Icon Baby Blog

You join a dating personals site because you want to meet a woman, so first impressions mean everything. The photos you post can have a major impact on the type of women you attract. Here are ten tips for posting photos on you online personal profile:

1. Use current photos this sounds like a no-brainer, but many people are guilty of posting photos from many years ago or even photos from a few months ago when they were many pounds lighter. You want to represent who you are and this means current photos.

2. Do not use glamour shots Many women are guilty of this, but surprisingly there are also many men who make this mistake. Glamour shots do not represent who you are every day. They are made up photos that are usually deceiving.

3. Quality over quantity Dont post a ton of bad photos just to add bulk. It is better to have a few good photos than a bunch of bad ones. Be sure the photos are clear and close up. Pictures taken from 20 feet or more away could be of anyone. They are too far away to be able to see what a person really looks like. Good lighting really makes a difference.

4. Smile for the camera So many people post photos of themselves without a smile. This makes people wonder if you have something to hide or if you are not a happy person. If you do not like your smile, try some teeth whiteners. They are inexpensive and really make a difference.

5. Dont use pictures with large groups of people When you put too many people in the photo it is difficult to figure out which one is you. You also dont want the person looking at the photo to desire someone else in the photo rather than you. You want to keep the focus on you.

6. No vulgarity Sometimes you may have some funny pictures, but they dont make the best first impression. What may seem humorous to you may offend others. Despite what your ego might tell you, women do not want to see naked body parts.

7. Primary photo should be your best The primary photo on your profile should be a good close-up of you by yourself. This is the most important photo you will post since it the one people will base their first impression on.

8. Dress the part This is not the time to wear your favorite T-shirt and sweats. Put on clothing that flatters.

9. Show what you tell Whatever you have described in your profile should be reflected in your photos. If you say you are an avid mountain climber, include photos of you in action. This adds credibility to what you say.

10. No photos with women Unless you have a photo of you with your mom, dont include photos of you with other women, even if it is your sister. Women will assume it is an ex-girlfriend and it is a big turn-off.

The photos you post are important to your success with online dating sites. The worst thing you can do is not post a photo at all. Most women wont even look at profiles if they do not include a photo. Make it a habit to carry a camera everywhere you go and get someone to take pictures of you doing the things you enjoy.

Chet Rowland is the author of several courses and dvds on online dating for men. For more information and a free course on meeting women visit Chet's Dating System.

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